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Christchurch New Dads Group Starting on Saturday Mornings

We are proud to announce a new partnership between The CMC, Canterbury Plunket Society and Father and Child Trust. From August 18th, 2018 every Saturday at 10am new or curious dads are welcome to meet, share and ask any questions.
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Father and Child at ‘Men and Relationships’ Conference in Wellington


Kids Need Dads National Conference July 12-13, 2018

Kidz Need Dadz are hosting a conference on ‘Men and Relationships in 2018 – Te tangata me te whanaungatanga i roto i te 2018.’

Key Note Speakers include Victoria University’s Chris Bowden, Children’s Commissioner Judge Andrew Becroft, Minister Of Children, Honourable Tracey Martin and Oranga Tamariki/Ministry for Children Deputy Chief Executive Hoani Lambert, plus ‘Male Survivors Aotearoa’s Philip Chapman.

Father and child will be hosting a workshop on ‘Mums and Dads – Working better Together’ and we’ll be part of a panel discussion on day one, very interested in all the speakers.
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PADA release ‘How are you, really?’ book with PMH and Dads chapter

PADA (Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Aoteroa) has released a book to empower support professionals in understanding Perinatal Mental Health. To date there has been very little local research or resource to inform support workers or professionals in their roles. ‘How are you, really?’ assembles relevant articles, research and best practise for care providers or students.

Perinatal mental health covers conception, miscarriages, terminations, baby loss, birth trauma, PND and PTSD, along with any previous or overlapping mental health issues. Awareness of how each of these areas may impact on a pregnancy or birth recovery, bonding or family togetherness is vital for midwives, maternity ward nurses, Maternal Mental Health, Plunket or Post Natal depression professionals. Volunteers in support groups for post natal depression can benefit from the wealth of knowledge in one place, finally a directory and references to enable well informed services throughout Aotearoa.

The content has been assembled by Leigh Breidenkamp, PADA board member and Parents Centre publishing editor. Leigh has poured weeks and months of her time into finding, collating, editing and checking the content, along with actual quotes from mothers and fathers. Leigh understands the need having seen the void in many professionals education around PMH. With her broad view and inside connections with the midwifery college, Leigh has been able to select a great line up of expertise and information to empower informed support and services.

Father and Child Trust are proud to have been included in submitting the Dads and PMH Chapter. It covers the ways that dads get PND too, plus how changes in the relationship around baby time are often misunderstood. Dads are the first line in defense around mums and PND so it pays to inform, engage and support dads. Good outcomes for mothers and children probably depend on one.

Order today email office@pada.nz NZ$35 + $4 postage

PADA is hosting a Training Day at AUT South (Manukau) on 28th June 2018,
register at PADA.nz
Presenters –
Marion Doherty
Auckland DHB
Infant Mental Health in the context of
Perinatal Anxiety & Depression
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Kristina Paterson
Mothers Helpers
A Journey with PND
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Wendy Turner
Plunket
Positive Transition of Care
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Hāpai Te Hauora Māori Public Health
Cultural Safety
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Joanne Rama
Midwife
Te kahu Manaki wahine

Little Adventurers Day, incl. free Rocket Ropes for 2-6yr olds

Aiming to empower children and their parents in a safe, active, play afternoon, Father and Child Trust (Onehunga) and friends have booked Sunday 4th and Tuesday 6th March, each for 1.30 – 2.30 pm.

We will provide a free Rocket Ropes Little Rocketeer course entry, plus we invite parents and carers to accompany their children.
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Fathers Mauri Ora Circle BBQ and End of Year Celebration

Supporters and Families are welcome to celebrate another great year with Father and Child Trust in Auckland.

From 6-8pm at the Onehunga Community Centre Carpark – off Lower Municipal Drive, Wednesday 20th Dec…
we offer free food, soft drinks and huge thanks to all the dads, family members and volunteers who have contributed so much this year.
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Changing Roles for 21st Century Fathers

If you have just discovered that in a few short months, you will be a dad for the first time, a myriad of questions must be racing through your brain. “Who will care for our baby?” “How will my partner and I juggle work and care?” “What are the most important ideas we wish to share with our child?” The answer to all these questions is a matter of choice – now, we are freer than ever to define the type of father we wish to be. These are just a few of the options open to fathers in the 21st century.

Freedom to Father as We Wish

Although in general, fewer parents are staying home to look after their children than they did 30 years ago, the number of fathers who have put their career on hold to be with their children full-time, has increased. Statistics New Zealand indicates, in the 2013 census, that around 36,000 Kiwi men opted to be stay-at-home dads, compared to 195,000 women. Nonetheless, numbers of men opting for this model have grown consistently over the years, and hopefully, it won’t be too long until percentages even out. Interestingly, in the UK, one in seven fathers are the main childcare provider. For many fathers, their decision to stay at home can be attributed to one or more of the following reasons:

Their spouse’s high earning potential

Their personal wish to be the main care provider

A reluctance to have a third party care for their children all day

The decision to be a stay-at-home dad is a testimony to a greater search for meaning in the 21st century. No longer is modern man defined by what he earns or where his career is heading. These days, a truly successful man, is one that does what truly fulfills him.

Greater Paternal Involvement

Numerous studies have shown the plentiful benefits that arise when fathers take an early hands-on role in parenting. Those who build a bond early with their child, are more likely to maintain this connection throughout their lifetime. A recent study by researchers at Monash University found that 85% of fathers surveyed said they would stop working to look after their baby for three months if there were no financial ramifications. Fathers in the new millennium want to be more involved, which is the first step towards the dream becoming a reality. Of course, it is possible to be involved even when a father is not the main care provider; staying at home with our children is just one option.

Different Types of Dad

The new millennium sees a growing awareness of different types of fathers. These include non-residential dads, divorced dads, and stepdads, and gay dads. Discrimination is dissipating and society has gained great awareness of the fact that great dads come in all shapes and sizes.

Choices in Education

The greater involvement of fathers in their children’s upbringing open a plethora of possibilities regarding education; parents are able to choose between options such as homeschooling vs conventional schooling. Additionally, the bond between fathers and children mean that values which are important to a father (for instance, the importance of nature and the environment, animal rights, human rights) can become an important part of a child’s education.

Father’s roles have changed vastly in the past few decades, with families having more choices in terms of childcare, roles in the home and the workplace, and education. We have come to know and accept several types of fathers in the new millennium, noting one factor that many have in common – greater involvement in their children’s lives.

By Jane Sandwood

What a Great Week for Fathers…

Following on from a few years of events leading up to Fathers Day, this year Family Start Manukau and Father and Child pushed the boat out even further, asking GreatFathers and ManUp to help, hosting and presenting a week for all of Auckland’s Dads. (more…)

Week of Events leading up to Fathers Day 2017 in Auckland

Father and Child Trust, Family Start Manukau and GreatFathers present their week of events leading up to Fathers Day 2017. (more…)

Engaging With Dads Lecture at University of Auckland

On Tuesday 29th Aug 10am – 12pm, Dave Owens, David Ringrose and Brendon Smith are presenting:
Engaging Dads Early, Converting Tricky Fathers into Involved Dads and Engaging Dads around Perinatal Mental Health issues. (more…)

NewsHub on Father and Child giving fathers hope

Newshub Producer Max Milyneux knew dads often ‘did it tough’ through separation or regarding contact with their children. Father & Child know hundreds of dads are kept from maintaining a bond for spurious reasons, delays and alienation.

This video was published on Newshub 2nd June 2017 (more…)

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