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		<title>Little Volcanoes: Helping Young Children and Their Parents to Deal with Anger</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2012/01/little-volcanoes-helping-young-children-and-their-parents-to-deal-with-anger/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 22:38:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Book by Warwick Pudney and &#201;liane Whitehouse. Young children can erupt like little volcanoes when they are feeling angry. It can be overwhelming and difficult to deal with, and can produce angry feelings in the parent or caregiver too. This book is packed with advice and strategies for those working with children under five on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Book by Warwick Pudney and &#201;liane Whitehouse.
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<p>Young children can erupt like little volcanoes when they are feeling angry. It can be overwhelming and difficult to deal with, and can produce angry feelings in the parent or caregiver too.
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<a href="http://www.jkp.com/catalogue/book/9781849052177"><img class="alignright" src="http://www.jkp.com/pics/books/2011/978-1-84905-217-7.jpg" alt="cover of Little Volcanoes: Helping Young Children and Their Parents to Deal with Anger"/></a></p>
<p>This book is packed with advice and strategies for those working with children under five on how to understand and manage anger in children, and also how to help their parents or caregivers to deal with anger.<!--more--> The authors outline the different reasons children may feel angry so that their emotions can be fully understood, and offer strategies to combat negative feelings and minimize outbursts. These include putting in place behavioural boundaries and helping a child to feel secure. Simple activities and exercises are also given to help children and adults to express their anger positively. In addition, a selection of poems and stories will help adults to pass on the lessons of the book to children.
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<p>This practical and accessible book will be of essential use to any professional helper of parents and young children such as early childhood educators, caregivers and social workers, as well as to parents themselves.
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<p>You can purchase <a href="http://www.jkp.com/catalogue/book/9781849052177">Little Volcanoes: Helping Young Children and Their Parents to Deal with Anger</a> direct from the publisher.
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<p>For more information, here is an <a href="http://www.jkp.com/blog/2012/01/interview-warwick-pudney-little-volcanoes/">interview with author Warwick Pudney</a>.</p>
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		<title>Govt wants opinions on preventing child abuse</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2012/01/govt-wants-opinions-on-preventing-child-abuse/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2012/01/govt-wants-opinions-on-preventing-child-abuse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 22:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harald</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Child abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Children]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Paula Bennett]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The government has released its Green Paper on Vulnerable Children, outlining problems and possible approaches to tackling child abuse in New Zealand, and wants everyone&#8217;s feedback. A special web site (www.saysomething.org.nz) has been set up, which allows people to comment on specific issues, or on the whole paper, and making a submission is a lot [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The government has released its Green Paper on Vulnerable Children, outlining problems and possible approaches to tackling child abuse in New Zealand, and wants everyone&#8217;s feedback. A special web site (<a href="http://www.saysomething.org.nz">www.saysomething.org.nz</a>) has been set up, which allows people to comment on specific issues, or on the whole paper, and making a submission is a lot less tedious. The deadline for this is 28 February.<br />
Father &#038; Child believes that the government is genuinely interested in hearing people&#8217;s voices about this, and they have expressed that they&#8217;re keen to get more submissions from dads (or males) than they usually get.</p>
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		<title>Father &amp; Child&#8217;s top job up for grabs</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/12/father-childs-top-job-up-for-grabs/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/12/father-childs-top-job-up-for-grabs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 21:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Father &#038; Child General Manager and founder Harald Breiding-Buss intends to step back from the Trust&#8217;s management early next year and we are looking for a new person to fill this role. It is part-time (20 hrs/wk) and suits an active parent. While still very small, Father &#038; Child has had some exciting growth over [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Father &#038; Child General Manager and founder Harald Breiding-Buss intends to step back from the Trust&#8217;s management early next year and we are looking for a new person to fill this role. It is part-time (20 hrs/wk)<br />
and suits an active parent.<br />
While still very small, Father &#038; Child has had some exciting growth over the last two years with now eight staff members (all part-time) in three locations.<br />
At this stage we are asking for Expressions of Interest before 22 January 2012. After an application and interview process we expect employment to start in mid February 2012. Harald will be available to provide training and a gradual transition.<br />
More details, see <a href="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/about/be-our-new-GM/">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Spaces available for correspondence parenting course</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/11/spaces-available-for-correspondence-parenting-course/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/11/spaces-available-for-correspondence-parenting-course/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 23:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harald</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Parenting Courses]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Father &#038; Child has five spaces available at the moment in our free correspondence parenting course for dads who find it difficult to attend other courses. The 10-module course covers child development and parenting from babies through to teenagers and can be done as a whole or in parts only. Email us for info.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Father &#038; Child has five spaces available at the moment in our free correspondence parenting course for dads who find it difficult to attend other courses. The 10-module course covers child development and parenting from babies through to teenagers and can be done as a whole or in parts only. <a href="mailto:info@fatherandchild.org.nz">Email us</a> for info.</p>
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		<title>Tigilau Ness wearing Father &amp; Child cap on TV</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/11/tigilau-ness-wearing-father-child-cap-on-tv/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/11/tigilau-ness-wearing-father-child-cap-on-tv/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 09:13:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The documentary &#8216;Sons From Afar&#8217; was shown on Maori TV 22 October 11 at 8.30pm. Some sharp-eyed F&#38;C members spotted a familiar logo worn by one of the stars. From the promo: &#8220;New Zealand hip-hop artist, Che Fu and his father, musician Tigilau Ness, share an intimate pilgrimage to their island homeland of Niue. Their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The documentary <strong>&#8216;Sons From Afar&#8217;</strong> was shown on Maori TV 22 October 11 at 8.30pm. Some sharp-eyed F&amp;C members spotted a familiar logo worn by one of the stars.</p>
<div id="attachment_4564" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 330px"><img src="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/wp-content/uploads/tigilau-ness-sons-from-afar.jpg" alt="Tigilau Ness &#039;Sons from afar&#039;" title="tigilau-ness-sons-from-afar" width="320" height="257" class="size-full alignright wp-image-4564" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Tigilau Ness wearing one of our caps</p></div>
<p>From the promo:</p>
<p>&#8220;New Zealand hip-hop artist, Che Fu and his father, musician Tigilau Ness, share an intimate pilgrimage to their island homeland of Niue. </p>
<p>Their first ever journey to the tiny pacific atoll to perform at the Niue Arts and Culture Festival has a profound and unexpected effect on their whole family.&#8221;</p>
<p>The video is well worth watching. It is currently available from the list in the centre of the <a href="http://www.maoritelevision.com/Default.aspx?tabid=572&#038;pid=8258">Pakipumeka</a> page (you may need to scroll sideways).</p>
<p>If you want to look like a TV star, you can <a href="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/shop/">get your own F&amp;C cap from our shop</a>.</p>
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		<title>Family Court Being Reviewed</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/09/family-court-being-reviewed/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/09/family-court-being-reviewed/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Sep 2011 01:42:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Family Court is being reviewed by the Ministry of Justice and a consultation paper is now out and open for public submissions. See here.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Family Court is being reviewed by the Ministry of Justice and a consultation paper is now out and open for public submissions. See <a href="http://www.justice.govt.nz/policy/justice-system-improvements/family-court-review/family-court-review">here</a>. </p>
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		<title>Vacancy: Christchurch Coordinator</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/09/vacancy-christchurch-coordinator/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/09/vacancy-christchurch-coordinator/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 21:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harald</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Christchurch]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Make a real difference in the community by working for Father &#038; Child. We&#8217;re looking for a well-organised all-rounder in Christchurch to fill this position, which coordinates our local activities. For full details see here]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Make a real difference in the community by working for Father &#038; Child. We&#8217;re looking for a well-organised all-rounder in Christchurch to fill this position, which coordinates our local activities. For full details see <a href="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/christchurch/vacancy-christchurch-coordinator/" target="_blank">here</a></p>
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		<title>Some dads do it all alone</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/09/some-dads-do-it-all-alone/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/09/some-dads-do-it-all-alone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 21:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harald</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Father & Child Trust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fatherhood]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fathers Day]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Research]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Single Fathers]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In time for Fathers Day this year we have completed our study on fathers who raise young children with no or very little input by the children&#8217;s mother. This is a usually forgotten and quite &#8216;invisible&#8217; family type that seems to engage little with the communities they live in. For more detail and the full [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In time for Fathers Day this year we have completed our study on fathers who raise young children with no or very little input by the children&#8217;s mother. This is a usually forgotten and quite &#8216;invisible&#8217; family type that seems to engage little with the communities they live in. </p>
<p>For more detail and the full report, see <a href="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/papers/dependent-on-dad-study/">here</a>: </p>
<p><a href="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/wp-content/uploads/SCCZEN_31082011NZHNSDAD3_460x230.jpg"><img src="http://fatherandchild.org.nz/wp-content/uploads/SCCZEN_31082011NZHNSDAD3_460x230-320x160.jpg" alt="Dan and TK having fun at the park" title="SCCZEN_31082011NZHNSDAD3_460x230" width="320" height="160" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-4480" /></a></p>
<p>For the NZ Herald report with Auckland solo dad Daniel Philips, see</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&#038;objectid=10748846">here</a></p>
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		<title>Fathers Day Jamboree</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/08/fathers-day-jamboree/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 00:59:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>brendon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On September 4th we are hosting a Fathers Day fun event. Bring your family, instruments, songs or dance and join in. Local musicians will help blend the acts together, low cost barbeque sausages will be available, find fathering information and meet other parents. Onehunga Community Centre – 83 Church Street Call 525 1690 for queries [...]]]></description>
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On September 4th we are hosting a Fathers Day fun event.<br />
Bring your family, instruments, songs or dance and join in.<br />
Local musicians will help blend the acts together,<br />
low cost barbeque sausages will be available,<br />
find fathering information and meet other parents.<br />
Onehunga Community Centre – 83 Church Street<br />
Call 525 1690 for queries or contributions!</p>
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		<title>Boys who want to be dads &#8211; Sunday News</title>
		<link>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/08/boys-who-want-to-be-dads-sunday-news/</link>
		<comments>http://fatherandchild.org.nz/2011/08/boys-who-want-to-be-dads-sunday-news/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 06:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Auckland]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teen dads]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Brendon was interviewed for a story on teenage dads published in the Sunday News last weekend. Boys who want to be dads Father &#038; Child Trust spokesman Brendon Smith said some young men wanted to have something they had never enjoyed themselves. And shutting them out could make them suffer an intense form of separation [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brendon was interviewed for a story on teenage dads published in the Sunday News last weekend.<br />
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<a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/sunday-news/news/5365892/Boys-who-want-to-be-dads">Boys who want to be dads</a></p>
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Father &#038; Child Trust spokesman Brendon Smith said some young men wanted to have something they had never enjoyed themselves.</p>
<p>And shutting them out could make them suffer an intense form of separation anxiety that could even lead to self-harm.</p>
<p>He said Work and Income, Housing NZ, the family of the girl, and even entrance criteria for teenage mum units could work against teen dads living with the mother, preventing them from providing or participating as a parent.</p>
<p>&#8220;My experience is that the young mum often then welcomes other men into the house and they are often not `father material&#8217;.&#8221;</p>
<p>He said that could lead to unsafe situations for the child and frequently fuelled conflict with the child&#8217;s father.</p>
<p>&#8220;When the young dads try to report their concerns to agencies or relatives, they are not listened to. They are unable to be a protector of their child.&#8221; </p></blockquote>
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